Veteran’s Dinner with Key Lime Dark Rum Cheesecake
September 11, 2012 in Cakes and Cupcakes, Dessert, Recipes
I could tell you where I was when the first plane hit the tower. I could tell you what I was wearing, where each of my boys were,that my mother-in-law was in the kitchen fixing coffee. It is all permanently chiseled into my brain. But, what I remember the most was fear for my husband and all of our military family that we had accumulated over the years in the military. All of the “what if’s” began boiling in my heart and my head. What if they call him away from recruiting because of his marksman skills? What if his office is targeted? What will our family do without him? Who among our military families will have to answer the call to protect us, bravely going into harms way.
I know there are people out there that think the military is filled with “peace haters” and “war lovers”. But you know what? If ANYONE fears war and aches for peace…it is military families. When our spouse is separated from us, we think of what harm could come to them, where they could be sent next, when we will get to talk to them next to reassure us they are ok. We don’t want war. Our spouses most certainly don’t want war. We want peace, and to be together. September 11th brought to mind and heart every fear I have had since my husband joined the military over 20 years ago. It was all real, tangible, I could taste it. But our military men and women willingly protected and still do protect us. They are just as passionate about it as veterans as they are as active duty members. Because of this common goal and passion, a family is forged, and it stays for life.
Most of you know, my husband recently retired from the Navy. There aren’t a tremendous amount of Navy personnel here in Montana so finding the Veterans Center on the campus of The University of Montana was like seeing long lost family for me.
These men and women have been ALL around the world. They have a huge map on the wall pin pointing all of the locations. There was a VERY large concentration in the Middle East.No, I didn’t know any of them at first, but we instantly felt at home. It is a fairly small, run down house with not a tremendous amount of funding, but what they do have is amazing passion and gusto to make the University experience for Veterans as easy, stress free and productive as possible. They keep the fridge and freezer stocked with food for study sessions or if you just need a break. They have a few computers and some text books to borrow. The best parts (in my opinion)…they have activities to keep them together. To keep them talking and interacting. We went to our first Friday night barbeque last Friday. I took Key Lime Dark Rum Cheesecake. I wanted to feed my family well.
Key Lime Dark Rum Cheesecake
| Serves | 12 |
| Prep time | 10 minutes |
| Cook time | 20 minutes |
| Total time | 30 minutes |
| Meal type | Dessert |
Ingredients
- 2 cups graham cracker crumbs
- 1 cup shortbread crumbs
- 1/2 cup granulated sugar
- 1/2 cup butter (melted and cooled)
- 4 egg yolks
- 1 tablespoon lime zest (from two limes)
- 1/2 cup lime juice (I used four limes)
- 1-14oz can sweetened condensed milk
- 2-8oz blocks cream cheese (room temperature)
- 1 cup granulated sugar
- 3/4 cups powdered sugar
- 2 cups whipping cream (very cold)
- 1 1/2 teaspoon powdered gelatin (unflavored)
- 1/4 cup dark rum
Directions
| 1. | In 9 inch springform pan, combine graham and shortbread crumbs, sugar and butter until it resembles wet sand. Press to the bottom and all the way up the sides of the pan. Bake at 350 for about 8 minutes. Set out to cool. | |
| 2. | Combine lime zest and juice and set aside for 5 minutes or so to let the zest soak up some juice. | |
| 3. | Beat egg yolks until very light colored and thickened. Slowly pour in the condensed milk. When completely combined, slowly add in the lime juice. Mix well. | |
| 4. | Pour filling into the cooled crust and bake in 350 oven for 12 minutes. Remove from oven and cool. This is all you will need your oven so go ahead and turn it off. | |
| 5. | Once the key lime is cool, begin beating the cream cheese and sugars until very light and fluffy. | |
| 6. | While the cream cheese is beating, combine the gelatin and rum in a small heat proof cup or ramekin. Allow it to bloom for 5 minutes or so, then liquify in a microwave for about 5-10 seconds. Set aside to cool, but keep it liquid. | |
| 7. | Whip the heavy cream until thick and medium peaks form. | |
| 8. | Slowly add the gelatin to the beating cream cheese mixture. | |
| 9. | Add about 1/3 of the whipped cream to the cream cheese mixture and stir to loosen, then fold in the rest of the whipped cream until just fully incorporated. Pour over the top of the key lime filling, smooth the top and refrigerate until firm, about 2-4 hours. |
Be good sweet readers. And find the time to thank a veteran or their family…or better yet, give them a hug!! They are why we are still safe and free to live the way we do.





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I was 7 months pregnant with our first son that fateful day – I don’t think any of us will ever forget. What a fitting tribute Carrie. I know I’ll be coming back for this recipe when I have to chalk down my grocery list.
chow! Devaki @ weavethousandflavors
Being a military brat it hit home when the radio DJ said the Pentagon was hit. At first it just seemed like something really crazy happening in NYC. I don’t think I will ever forget where I was either.
Looks like I need to go shopping to pick up a few ingredients like shortbread to crumb. Can’t wait to try this one mostly because of the dark rum. So far I have not been disappointed with any of your recipes.
PS: Shouldn’t that be Veteran’s instead of Vetran’s in the title?
ACK! Thank you for pointing that out!! It’s fixed. I am glad you have enjoyed my recipes so far. You rock!